Being a virgin doesn’t matter to the vast majority of people. If a woman finds a person attractive, they’re not gonna care if they’re a virgin. If they do, they’re probably pretty judgmental and not worth the time. I’m now 28, I don’t think I’ve heard anyone mention virginity for at least 6 or 7 years.

Virginity stops being anything like a mark of shame after high school. Unless you make incel bullshit part of your identity.

Given that you also used 22 years old in your last post, I’m going to assume you’re a 22-year-old male who’s at the event horizon of inceldom.

I’m barely older than you, you know. Nobody our age is having sex in their teens. Look at the research. Look at the male loneliness epidemic. Then, look up the studies on female isolation and realize that girls, not just guys, are getting increasingly isolated. In the age of terminally online people, brainrot, and girlfailures, do you really think that even 1/10 of teens are having sex? I got my first girlfriend only slightly older than you are right now, and I would consider that pretty early for our generation.

I would also encourage you to self-reflect on what you decide to make as part of your identity. By identifying yourself as a virgin, you are implying that you care about sex only as a status symbol. I hope I don’t need to explain why that might be offputting to a lot of people, in the same way that gold diggers would be offputting. Take care not to let yourself fall into a self-fulfilling prophecy, where thinking that you’re undateable makes you actually undateable.

To be clear, I have no hatred or dislike towards you. I believe that people should have as much sex as they want. I tell you these things because these are hard truths that you must face as a prerequisite for having any sort of chance of sex.

To directly answer your question, why would a woman not want to date a virgin? Why would virginity be a downside in a relationship?