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Cake day: June 2nd, 2023

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  • That’s about right.

    I’ve had a handful of past students have this conversation with me. I’m in “whatever floats your boat” crowd, so I basically ask what they’d like to be called and if they have any preferred pronouns. Then, I remind them I have enough trouble learning names on the first pass, but we’ll work it out after I screw up a few times (it’s just me being old brained, not malicious).

    Then I make sure to say their name a few times as we wrap up to start learning whatever it is, and move into other topics. I’m not their therapist, so I’ll just be as normal as possible in the face of change. No worries, you do you and I’ll forget any old names/faces soon enough anyway once I stop using them.















  • Jokes on you: the city I moved away from in the US added a parking garage to the historic register. If you weren’t so focused on waiting in a line of cars for the drive thru, you could be enjoying 10 stories of historically crumbling concrete!

    On my errands I was subjected to walking past atone churches from the pre 1800’s, going through a park, and going through a market hall from 1900. It was horrible. I didn’t even get to wait at any traffic lights for a Micro Vacation during my travels. Sad. Just sad.




  • Yesterday I headed out from the apartment for errands. I walked a total of about 8 blocks. I completed:

    • A haircut
    • Shopping for some house items
    • Post office for mailing a letter and stamps
    • Stopped to listen to some live music in a market hall
    • Talked with a local community group about tech stuff
    • Visited a library
    • Hit up the bank ATM
    • Snagged a couple bags of groceries

    Total time: about 115 minutes

    I LOVE living in a walkable neighborhood. Fuck car-only life. If you want it, fine, but don’t demand that we all live in your apocalyptic transportation hellscape.