🎲 Role player, Game master.

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Cake day: March 4th, 2025

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  • What you did was a mistake.

    • You are not stupid. You are not crazy. You did something you wish you could change and are blaming yourself.

    • You have not ruined your life, but if you let this hang over your head, it will ruin things until you forgive yourself and move on.

    • If you can make things right (apologizing, asking for a second chance, etc.), do it. If you can’t get things right, then accept that you can’t fix the past, but you can fix today and the future by learning from your mistakes.

    • You’re not going to find another person like him. Just like YOU, he’s one of a kind. That does NOT mean there aren’t others you can have a happy relationship with. That also doesn’t mean there could be someone better out there who could make you happier. But if you wallow in self-pity, you might miss out on finding that person.