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Cake day: June 13th, 2023

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  • I know. You’re missing my point. :)

    My point wasn’t the coalition. My point was that we had 21 days to cobble something together and not only did we do it, we managed to win with it. It’s not about the coalition, it’s about building a campaign. You have months to do so.

    And you’re about to say that Trump had way longer to do so. Yes. So did the far right in our country, which barely even campaigned because all of the media were doing so on their behalf for the last two years and we still managed to outnumber them.

    Trust me, my faith in the Democrats is barely existent. But still, I think it can be done.






  • Until they start pulling their weight? What? I think this reveals a lot about the way you think. Being queer is not a social club. It isn’t a giant apartment in which we’re all living in and therefore, if someone doesn’t do the fucking chores, they need to be kicked out. No.

    It’s not a either stay and fight or leave situation. We are born in a society that happens to be queerphobic as queer people. There is fighting it, but there is no escaping it. And not everyone wants to fight. I don’t blame them. Because they already have to deal with the fact that they are queer in a queerphobic society, which is already a fight by itself.


  • Listen, Grail, this isn’t the first time I see you post something, and I can’t help but notice you have a pattern of aggressively dictating the way people should act.

    Yes, I am pissed off at the people who are completely “apolitical” while being queer. When I’m talking to people in my country who don’t seem worried about the imminent coming of the far right in power, while being queer themselves, while sitting with me, a trans woman, yes, I want to slap the shit out of them and tell them to wake the fuck up! I fully agree. However, I don’t care about the people who are not being actively militant though. Not everyone wants to make their queerness their whole identity.

    They are not the enemy. Calm down. You know which queer people are the enemy of queer people? Those who fought for themselves and said fuck everyone else, like the people who are specifically LGB activists and hate the T, for example.

    But those who don’t want to actively fight, those who don’t want to be militant? No, leave them alone. Let them be. And fight for them. Not everyone can or want to. Yes, it can be tiring and I get it, but you don’t know what’s going on in people’s mind.

    Especially trans people. Our whole lives is already a fight. People don’t understand us, they don’t want to make a single effort to do. When we have to change our name, change our legal gender, it’s so complicated to do in some countries and it can take quite a toll on us. HRT is sometimes a mess to get access to, sometimes it’s impossible. We have to fight for every little things.

    I have trans friends who are just politically conscious but don’t really participate in the political things. They don’t go to protests and anything. And I don’t blame them. Being trans is already such a constant fight.

    What about the people who aren’t interested in fighting, and who actively work to create spaces antithetical to fighting for queer liberation?

    What do you mean by antithetical to fighting for queer liberation? Because from what I’m reading, it just sounds like apolitical spaces. And if so, well, you don’t know that!

    I frequently go to spaces that are made for and by trans people, where we avoid politics deliberately. Because we want to talk about other things, we want to talk about our lives, our own personal struggles. And not politics.

    Because a lot of people want to take away our rights and we are all aware of that. How the fuck can we not be aware of it? It’s all over the news. Trans people are getting killed, trans people are losing their rights and some of us want to think about something else in our already overly stressful lives.

    It’s like some content creators who talk about politics and the second they don’t talk about anything real related they get half the views and they’re burning out on their own identity because that’s all they can think about.

    Again, we don’t choose this. None of us chose to be queer. None of us chose to be gay. None of us chose to be lesbian. None of us chose to be bi. None of us chose to be pan. None of us chose to be trans. None of us chose to be intersex. And so on and so on and so on. None of us chose to be this. And some of us just want to live our lives trying to think about something else than the fact that we are queer.










    1. “Alright guys, it’s time to leave Slack for a better alternative!”
    2. Proceeds to migrate to yet another proprietary and centralized piece of software.
    3. It happens again.
    4. “Alright guys, it’s time to leave [insert software name here] for a better alternative!”
    5. Proceeds to migrate to yet another proprietary and centralized piece of software, again.
    6. It happens again, again.
    7. Clown moment.

    It’s what’s going to happen. It’s what always happens. And on a side note, by the way, I guaran-fucking-tee you that it’s what’s going to eventually happen with Discord as well. I have zero doubt about it.