shuvo jonmodin ^^

sonica 😳

yeah… consequences of frequently being called an “attention seeker” back when i was a minor for the crimes of opening up to others. as a result now i live with worrying if i’m bothering others by opening up or expressing my psychological needs.

wish others understood it like you do because come on, we’re not fucking robotic tin cans. we’re people with emotions. fuck this toxic individualistic nonsense where you get told that “It’s nOT otHEr PeOPleS’ job” to validate or comfort you 😒

thanks 🥺👉👈💖🏳️‍⚧️

dunno why something as simple as this is so difficult for some people to just say

for context i experienced transphobia in an online space somewhere and it really would’ve helped.

sorry for being a fucking attention seeker.

jesus. if hexbear is considered a small site, i don’t want to think what lemmygrad would be considered. /nm

Yeah, they’re Brazilian. Matter of fact, they said they actually use translators to talk with me and non-portuguese speakers.

So I think these would be very helpful sources for them to look into. Thank you. ^^

as opposed to Bat-Man? :ooo

what would happen, indeed 🤔

Yeah… they’re not apparently.

Also it’s Man :ooo

sadly scientists are indicating that bats are closer to primates/humans (somehow) than mice/rats. 😔

otherwise i would’ve agreed with you.

oh look it’s a flying opossum

i’m now curious about what these wild takes they have about non-white trans women like me.

but i pray that i don’t have to meet the kind of trans women you mentioned… and that they can eventually see the light and the error of their ways.

unbelievable that some people - despite being oppressed by the system - could be like this.

coincidentally, do these people also happen to be truscum/transmed? or even some “tucutes” are a part of this? because i feel like it’d make sense for truscum/transmed trans people to hold such reactionary views.

sadly yes, but i just didn’t expect feminists of all people to harbor these kinds of sentiments

hold on. there are… 3rd wave feminists… with no sense of intersectionality???

It’s partially white ignorance, most whites didn’t see the shit Black women go through; the voices of white women were elevated because of their whiteness so their own concerns came first in the public discourse; Black women were rationally reluctant to raise their own voices in the face of white terrorism;

ok, this explains it

Blackness has been coded as masculine and male by white society to better superexploit their physical labor

…and i’m back to being utterly baffled because i’m not understanding the rationale behind people labeling blackness as “masculine” and whiteness as “feminine”. makes zero sense to me to genderize(?) a whole race/group of people like they’re a completely different alien species.

increasing the population of Black labor was no longer seen as desirable by white society after the end of slavery

now this gets me wondering, did white people back then try to control the reproductive rights of black people (or even kill black children or force black couples into aborting their children) to achieve this goal?

white women believed they could easier acheive their own liberation by focusing only on themselves and excluding Black women.

…yeah, i’m calling cap on their belief. i don’t think white guys could care less if you included black women or not. i don’t think they’d still be willing to give you rights or treat you as every other human being.

still plenty of them around today

how??? how are they still able to operate in this era???

how do they reinforce their beliefs???

do they seriously think white guys will happily give them rights just because they’re throwing their black sisters under the bus?

i’m so baffled by this, their existence. how can you exclude black women from your space or think they don’t deserve rights…

especially in an era where you’d think people would know better. :\

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this… isn’t a competition re: who could get rights first…???

if anything, the white women in question should’ve been able to show solidarity with the black women because both of them are in a similar situation (neither could vote)

but white supremacist sounds about right

gross… did not expect this

see, i don’t understand this.

maybe it’s because i’m from the 21st century or just that i don’t know much on the matter, but i’m literally clueless on how the fuck could the suffragettes - despite being feminists - not sympathize with black women or be inspired to be anti-slavery after seeing the shit black women go through (granted idk how the lives of black women were when they weren’t doing slave labor like their brothers, but still).

like, it’s just not registering with me. someone please explain this to me.

i need more les gay sapphic eldritch stuff in my life 🥺👉👈