• dandelion (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      12 days ago

      I think a lot of it’s about doing your research on a guy you are dating or deciding whether to go on a date with; the motivation is usually just common sense safety (hence the “or is it due diligence” in the title), but I think sometimes it can slip into drama territory.