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Cake day: January 19th, 2026

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  • I’m not implying that at all. And what’s with the personal attack??? Talk about implying. I’m saying that in order to find a good relationship we should learn how to recognize and potentially put aside these sexual preferences in favor of seeing a person for who they really are. Most women prefer taller men. The height doesn’t make them better partners.





  • I shower regularly now but a few years ago I had major depression and stopped showering for months. I could barely motivate myself to breathe. I’m not even kidding, I was so depressed I was struggling to breathe. People don’t realize just how much effort it takes to do basic things like eat, brush your teeth, or even get out of bed when you have no will to be alive.

    Even so, no one ever commented on it. Not even close family. I’ve always had super dry skin and I noticed that during this period my skin was actually somewhat normal. It’s possible no one said anything out of kindness but I doubt it tbh. Some people just sweat/smell less than others.







  • Hostile, not that I have seen. Insular, possibly. Lemmy is much smaller than Reddit (which I personally enjoy) so it can seem like somewhat of an island. It’s kind of inevitable to find know-it-all’s in a thread based platform like this, unfortunately. I would imagine most people on here are very tech savvy and we tend to have a more nitpicky way of socializing/viewing the world. In the few years I’ve been here Lemmy has grown tremendously though.







  • Arcden@lemmy.ziptoPrivacy@lemmy.mlPrivate music?
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    18 days ago

    I’ve been enjoying using Finamp for my Jellyfin server, although you will need a proxy if you want to use it outside of your home network. I’m paying $7 a month (it used to be $5 😭) for a VPS that’s running Pangolin tunneled to my home server running Jellyfin. It’s basically my own private Spotify/Netflix/Audible. There are also free options like Nginx for the proxy.

    Pros:

    • Open source with desktop/web/android apps
    • Free/cheap once set up
    • Functions like major streaming services but doesn’t come with their bullshit
    • You have complete control over everything since it is self-hosted

    Cons:

    • Set up can be tough depending on your skill level
    • Requires your own home server PC
    • You must add all of your own content, be it through torrenting, ripping CDs, etc.