I think the same. Thank you so much for your answers and your help! I appreciate it muchly <3

Yeah of course. I was just wondering if there was anything I could do to make that process easier I guess. I’m just trying to be a good friend.

She’s not FULLY socially transitioned. Like, with her friends she’s herself, but with her family and in public, she’s, how did she put it…“Just a little fae”? She still goes by her deadname with family and in public

You want me to give you names, asswipe? Dates? You want a fucking picture of my scars? Would that satisfy your shitty fucking curiosity? Here you go fuck wad. You want more? Want me to take off my shirt and you show you all the burns? Go fuck yourself, loser.

She WANTS to though. Like, a lot. She makes those “and this is what I would do with my boobs…IF I HAD THEM” jokes and aw I feel bad. My bio dad now mom was SUCH a fucking asshole before she transitioned and now she’s just a different person. I mean my friend’s not an asshole but I want her to come into herself like my mom did if that makes sense.

I mean it wasn’t exactly rape but

I’m clearly done with this but “a consequence man is free from anything”? Really? You sound like those fucking religious wackadoos who think the only thing holding them back from horrific crimes is God. Maybe a consequence free man just wants a fucking hug, asshole.

Well a lot of men are blatant misogynists I never questioned that part of it. A lot of men are fucking assholes. Have the unfortunate privilege of having known some of them. It’s just a really dumb question is all. It still irks me even knowing more now. But yes people are assholes in general. Every one.

Entirely different situation when you’re not up in each other’s face. I thought that was the whole deal. If that isn’t the deal, I get the bear choice.

Well that’s…information I didn’t have before. Okay. I can see it more easily now. Still a dumb question but less of a dumb answer. I can admit when I’m wrong.

Oh no :/ Yeah I already talked to her about that, I’m not sure what sub it was but I went and read one of their guides on it. She’s open to it like I said, it’s the social stuff that is stopping her. And trump cutting supplies when she’s on them, which would be horrible, I understand that. My mom is trans too, so it’s an issue close to my heart, and I’d really like to help somehow. Though I know it’s ultimately just up to whenever she feels comfortable.

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I couldn’t give two shits what some random abusive stranger thinks of me online.

Then the question isn’t about having a man directly in your face either!

…What? If that wasn’t the question then what WAS the question?

What, the question is if you’re in like a mile radius of it? Lmao obviously the bear then. That’s even more of a dumb question. Wait all this time it was literally just “if you’re in the general large vicinity of” and not right next to? Jesus. What’s the point of that? I’d rather be lost randomly in a forest with a bear than even a serial killer, that’s an easy choice.

Thank you so much! This helps actually. Yeah she’s absolutely terrified of all the stuff trump is doing, shit I forgot to mention that. Like she’s worried that if she starts it, then Trump does something to cut off it off when she’s in the middle of it, it’s gonna be even worse for her

Explain. If you were teleported directly in front of a bear and directly in front of a stranger, how you would fare better with the bear. In detail, please.

Yeah that’s what I’ve been telling her too. She’s 23 or so now, so she definitely knows what she wants. She’s just really terrified of her hurting her dad. Not because he won’t accept her or anything (she’s been socially living as a woman for a long while now, just hasn’t ever had the ‘dad I’m trans’ convo’) but because she’s afraid the community will lash out against her family. Which I don’t think they will, but I have super anxiety too, so I understand the paranoia. I just don’t want her to miss out on what could be some great years for her because of fear, because I did the same (in an entirely unrelated fashion though)

Jesus Christ have you people ever been outside? You act like all men are just raping beasts being kept back by a thin thread. Have you ever considered that one of those things a man could do would BE NICE? Like a HUMAN? Probably not since you clearly don’t even consider them human. Good God I am so disappointed in humanity. Maybe if you didn’t exist entirely in your own bubble of hatred like some reverse 4chan incel you would have less shitty views on the world.

Hey if you dated an 800 lb coward that’s on you.

Alright, you want me to level with you? I’ll level with you. I’ve been HORRIBLY abused by women. I’m not talking little cigarette burns (though I have those too), I’m talking big ass knife gashes that are still painfully scarred 25 years on. I have been physically, sexually, and mentally abused and tortured for decades. And the only way I choose a bear which equals death over the vague possible CHANCE I could be abused again is if I was suicidal again. This is such a dumb argument. I’m not talking about this anymore.

His problem started at the pick up artists videos. Women are just people. Just talk to them like people. So long as you have good hygiene and you can carry a conversation you’re 90% above most other men. All of these problems start with these stupid people treating each gender like they’re some entirely different species born on a different planet. People are just people.